"What do you mean? She "Bullticky. " I took a deep breath, then backed up as Rose sprinted between us. "She doesn private reserve. She herself with her activities. Where do you belong in this picture?" One glance at her worried face and I weakened. "Let me put it to you this way, Alice: Rose is like those kids in the grocery store who are so out of control people like me want to take them by the scruff of the neck and shake them silly." Alice pulled her head back, obviously on a different wavelength. "You know," I continued. "The little lovelies who take candy from the racks and eat it while their mother makes meager attempts to stop them. The ones who race through the aisles screaming and rudely plow through any people in their way. The same kids who cry and scream and call their mother names if Mom even hints at the word centered, without a shred of consideration for oth- ers. You know who I ground, telling his Mom that it Alice finally whispered. "My Rose is a brat." "Well put." Alice looked like a balloon losing air. It was such a relieved look. "That makes it so clear. Oh, Cath- erine, I so understand it now. I can see it!" Alice was having an epiphany, that was very evident in eyes. "So where do I start to fix it?" We talked. We had a very long talk..... "This won Granted, some of my suggestions many have sounded Draconian to her--or maybe she was just trying to get out of picking up all those dog toys lit- tering her house. "On the contrary," I assured her. "If you don She screwed up her face in disbelief. "But her obe- dience training is progressing so beautifully." I smiled ruefully. "Yes. As long as you have a cookie for her. But wait," I warned. Still, Alice looked so forlorn. I couldn their handler. The dog feels it on running, totally out of control. It Alice was taking notes like a first-rate stenogra- pher. "So many people fail to understand that discipline and obedience are two different subjects--though there is overlap, of course." I didn "When I have to discipline my puppy for undesired behaviors, it ing her place and showing acceptance and re- spect, the obedience training cannot develop to its full potential. It just can Alice went home and applied much of what I had to say. Two weeks passed before she called again. "It Even he |